to hit someone where it hurts
to say or do something that makes someone feel very upset or vulnerable · to target someone's weak spot emotionally
What's the situation?
Ever been in a conversation where someone accidentally (or maybe on purpose! 😬) says something that just *pierces* through all your defenses and hits you right in your emotional soft spot? That's when someone 'hits you where it hurts'! It's usually about uncovering a hidden insecurity or a past trauma, making you feel instantly vulnerable. Ouch! 💔