to get defensive
to react in an angry or upset way when someone criticizes you · to protect oneself emotionally from criticism
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Ever had someone point out something you could improve, and instead of just listening, you instantly felt attacked? 😱 That's when you 'get defensive'! It means you react with anger or upset when faced with criticism, often because you feel vulnerable or misunderstood. It's a super common human reaction, especially when feedback hits a little too close to home. 🛡️